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It’s about love

So here we are. Almost a week ago, something terrible happened in Connecticut. Sorrow, heartbreak, loss. Bright young faces never to be seen again on this earth.

The man who did it… gah.

It’s been a rough week for gun owners, and especially for visible gun owners – bloggers, firearms instructors, podcasters and broadcasters, rights activists, writers. Anyone in the public eye. Among my friends in that world, I know very few who haven’t received a hate-filled letter or twelve this week. Some of those letters have included threats of violence. Or murder.

But that’s not what I wanted to talk about today. Today, what I wanted to talk about is where we go from here. What I am doing, and what you might want to do.

Let me explain first that I’m not a gun-rights activist in any normal sense of the word. Like most gun owners, I do throw an occasional dollar into the pro-rights pot, especially toward the Second Amendment Foundation, which has done such awesome work with court cases in recent years, including the Heller, McDonald, and Ezell cases. Like all good citizens, I write and call my political representatives whenever it needs to be done. But I’m not one of those people on the front lines of the gun rights battle. My work lies elsewhere, in educating people about how to use the tools they’ve already chosen to own. My passion drives me to teach people how to protect themselves from violence. And that’s where my work will stay.

With that in mind, I do think it’s fair to educate new gun owners about one surprising and important thing. If you haven’t owned guns for very long, you may not realize just how quickly your right to protect yourself using an effective, modern tool can be snatched away from you. This isn’t hyperbole, and I’m not selling you anything by saying that. It’s just a simple statement of fact.

Don’t believe me? Here are some examples from recent history.

In Australia, in spring of 1996, a scumbag walked into a public area (Port Arthur) and began killing people. Terrible, awful tragedy. Less than two weeks later, all state and territory ministers in the country had agreed to heavily restrict the ownership and use of semi-automatic rifles, and semi-automatic and pump-action shotguns. Within weeks, nearly all firearms in the country had been confiscated by the government.

In Scotland, in spring of 1996, a madman walked into a school and slaughtered 16 children and one adult before killing himself. Driven by that incident, within one year, it became effectively illegal to own a handgun anywhere in the United Kingdom.

Ah, but those are overseas, you say. Something like that couldn’t happen here in America. But it could. We know this because in 1986, federal law makers completely wiped out one small but thriving corner of the gun world with a back-room deal that took only a few hours to put in place. That was it. From suggestion to passage, slapped as a last-minute amendment to a basically pro-gun law, it took less than one day to completely destroy one corner of the gun industry, killing a number of thriving businesses. Now, you can think that was a good law or you can think it was a bad one, but regardless of how you feel about that, it was definitely a fast law.

So, if you value your right to own and carry tools that you can use to effectively defend yourself and the people you love, you should keep an eye on gun politics even though it’s unpleasant at times. We don’t have the luxury of ignoring politics entirely, no matter how much we might want to. Despite the tremendous strides we’ve made toward freedom over the past two decades, we know that all those gains can literally be erased overnight when people are upset enough. And right now… yeah. They are upset enough.

We’re not immune to those feelings, either. I’m certainly not. What mother, what parent, could be? We want the world to be a safer place for our children – for all our children. We want to protect them and keep them from harm. This is a driving need for any decent human being.

An anti-gun friend of mine (yes, I have them too) wrote this on Facebook: “I am more than happy to sacrifice my own individual rights for a greater good…”  The implication being, of course, that in order to protect our families and our communities, we must give up some of our rights, including the right to own and use effective tools for protecting ourselves and our loved ones. What I wonder is, would this person be equally willing to exercise her rights for the greater good? Because, you see, when we choose to protect ourselves, our families, and the people we love, we are acting for the greater good of our communities. By being prepared to stop violent acts, we are helping the people around us stay safe, and we are lowering the risk of violence happening at all.

“Let everyone sweep in front of his own door, and the whole world will be clean,” wrote Johann Wolfgang von Goethe. Let each responsible adult prepare to protect herself and the people around her, and the violent crime rate drops. Make it illegal or difficult for ordinary people to defend themselves, and violent crime rates go up. We don’t carry firearms to protect the whole world, but our willingness to defend ourselves does have a protective effect on the people around us.

And that brings us to the nasty little implication hidden in my friend’s sentence. It’s an accusation that you and I own firearms only as an act of selfishness. We only want to keep our rights because they’re ours, and we don’t care about the people around us. You know that’s not true, I know that’s not true, but … this person doesn’t know that, just as most anti-gun or even neutral people don’t know it. What she “knows” is that gun owners are more concerned about their gun rights than they are about the 20 children laid to rest this week in Connecticut. She “knows” that, and frames her argument based on that wrong idea.

We have to tell her, that’s not true. We can say it kindly, factually, passionately, bravely, or with our knees knocking together. But say it we must. Here’s what is true: we own guns because we are deeply concerned about the safety of our families and our communities. We support the right to own firearms—all types of firearms—because we believe that gun ownership saves lives. We believe in the right to carry guns because we believe that carrying guns helps good people stay safe from acts of evil. We hate gun-free zones because they make it easier for violent criminals to murder innocent victims. We support human rights as they relate to firearms not because we are selfish, but because we love people and want to see good people able to defend themselves from murderous madmen such as the one who slaughtered a classroom full of little children at an elementary school in Connecticut.

So yes, I’m concerned about our gun rights in the wake of this awful event. But my concern for gun rights is not an act of selfishness. It’s an act of love. I love the people around me, and want them able to stay safe.

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Last night, I talked to a friend of mine. This woman teaches at an elementary school in California. Like most schools in that state, her school has many entrances and exits, multiple buildings, and a campus that would be a nightmare to truly secure. My friend was sad, even angry, that neither she nor anyone around her would be able to protect “her” children in the case of a copycat attack. She would be expected to cower, and hide, and perhaps die – simply because there was no legal way for her to vigorously defend the children she loves. We talked about some of her options, including improvised weapons that would raise no eyebrows if she kept them in her classroom. We talked about making the decision to protect yourself and others. We talked about … the murderer.

Not that one.

The next  one.

The one that she knows. That everyone in her district knows. The smart, manipulative teenager with a hair-trigger temper and absolutely no empathy. The one whose own mom thinks he will kill her someday. The one who has been bounced from school, to school, to school within the system, who can’t be kept in an inpatient facility, and whose violent schizophrenic tendencies are getting worse. That kid.

“What can I do about him?” she asked me. “How can I keep him away from my school and out of my classroom?”

I have no answers. Within the system as it is right now, there is literally no way to stop that kid from committing murder. His own parents can’t get him into a treatment facility that will keep him longer than a few days. Even though literally every person in that teenager’s life knows that he will kill someone someday, he cannot be locked up. Not yet. Not until he snaps and kills someone… or a  whole classroom full of someones.

We should do something about that. That’s a conversation our society needs to have. But meanwhile, let me point this out: Not every potential murderer gives such clear warning signs.

Shouldn’t the intended victims have a way to fight back, if and when?

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Believe me, I’ve heard all the answers about improving school security. “Lock the door.” In a classroom with a wall full of windows, that’s less than reassuring. “Have all visitors to the campus check in a the office.” Like the shooter in Newtown did. “Metal detectors.” The first person shot would be the person manning the metal detector. “Text message alerts.” Then what? Schools should be safe, and yes, some of these measures might slow some types of intruders. But they won’t stop the worst of them, the kind we’re talking about here.

Nothing will.

There is literally nothing we can do that’s guaranteed to keep the next madman out of our schools. Some campuses would be easy to make more secure than they presently are, but none of them can be entirely secured. So there will always be a risk of a criminally insane attacker getting inside the walls.

Shouldn’t the people inside be equipped to protect themselves and the children they love, if and when that happens?

That’s the question we should be asking. We should ask it with compassion and concern. And we should keep asking it until we get a positive answer.

Because it’s not about our gun rights. It’s about love.

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“Semi-automatic machine gun”

Three times on Facebook this weekend, I saw the phrase “semi-automatic machine gun.” I don’t know where it’s coming from, but such a beast does not exist.

To explain:

  • A semi-automatic gun fires one shot every time you pull the trigger.
  • A “machine gun” (a fully-automatic firearm) fires multiple shots every time you press the trigger.

Fully-automatic guns have been strictly regulated in America since 1934, and are very difficult to buy. Because it is not legal for ordinary people to buy any fully-automatic gun that was made after 1987 1986, most of the working full-auto guns that are legal for ordinary people to own cost a lot of money ($10,000 or more). Military and law enforcement agencies can and do purchase new full-auto guns, but ordinary people cannot.

So when the media or politicians talk about banning “assault weapons,” they are not talking about banning guns that work like full-auto military weapons. Instead, these laws would ban simple, ordinary guns that have some cosmetic features that give them a military look — that’s all. It’s very confusing for people who don’t pay close attention to gun issues.

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Rainy day practice

It happens sometimes that enough water comes out of the sky to close the road to the range. Or make it cold enough to be really unpleasant outdoors. Or that the indoor range is closed for maintenance. Whatever. The point is, you had a little time free and you’d intended to use it to get better at defending yourself. And now, for whatever reason, you can’t get to the range.

What to do? Instead of throwing your hands in the air and giving up, I recommend that you choose one of the following ideas and run with it. Some of these ideas will fit more easily into your life than others, but they are all good choices for someone who wants to be better able to defend herself.

Dry fire. When you dry fire, you go through all the motions of firing your gun, including pulling the trigger, when there is no live ammunition in it.

You might be wondering, “What’s the point of that?”  I’ll tell you: dry firing lets you practice some very important things. You teach yourself how to safely and efficiently get the gun out of your holster — even while wearing your regular clothes, not the ratty tactical casual clothes you might wear to the range. You learn how to smoothly bring the gun onto target, without wasted motion. You ingrain the habit of pressing the trigger smoothly, without yanking or jerking. You train yourself to follow through on each shot, mentally bringing the gun back onto target after recoil and realigning the sights before you remove your finger from the trigger. You practice taking your finger off the trigger before you allow the gun to come down into your ready position. You ingrain the habit of looking around, and really seeing what is happening around you, before you replace the gun in its holster. You build in the habit of getting your finger entirely off the gun, outside the trigger guard, and flagged away from the side of the gun while you holster it safely. All of those good habits can be built without ever firing a shot.

Of course, when you dry fire, you should be very careful to follow all the dry fire safety rules to be sure you don’t risk hurting yourself or anyone else. If you are not 100% convinced that you can follow these rules in your home, don’t dry fire there.

If you would like to dry fire on a regular basis, I recommend treating yourself to a very inexpensive, easy to use safety device such as a Training Barrel or firearm block. There are a lot of things you can do with a gun-shaped object — a gun that has been disabled with one of these safety devices — that you cannot safely do with an “unloaded” gun. Here are some of them:

Learn how to use your designated safe room. While you are calm and not under stress, find the best angles to cover the doorway, and the best places to protect yourself within that room. Don’t risk trying to figure this stuff out all at once if someone breaks in. Figure it out now, practice it a few times, then set it aside for when you might need it — just as you do with your fire escape plan.

Study how to move from your bedroom to your children’s room with the least amount of exposure to windows, doors, or open areas. If someone taught you how to move with a gun in hand, or how to work around corners, you can practice doing those things inside your home so that you won’t have to figure them out in a hurry under stress.

Practice reloads. Again, this requires a disabled gun, with a Training Barrel or firearm block in place. For less than $20, you can also buy yourself a weighted dummy magazine, which is a magazine-shaped object that won’t hold any ammunition. I do not recommend practicing your reloads at home with a functioning gun, even with dummy ammunition or snap caps; the risk is simply too high in a world where there are safer alternatives.

Finally, if none of those things appeal to you, it’s always a good day to train your brain. Spend a little time reading a good book about concealed carry and self defense!

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Four stages of denial

Can’t figure out where I picked this up, but it’s brilliant. If you know the source for these stages, please let me know.

The Four Stages of Denial:

  1. That never happens.
  2. That will never happen to me.
  3. It won’t be that bad.
  4. There was nothing I could have done.

Denial kills, because most people who stumble over an unpleasant truth just pick themselves up and carry on as if nothing has happened.

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A hero in Clackamas

There were many heroes this week in the Clackamas Mall. As Clackamas County Sheriff Craig Roberts wrote, there were many “stories of genuine heroism that I’ve heard: people helping complete strangers escape from the violence, employees stepping up to protect their customers, and most especially the courage of the medical professionals who put their own lives at risk in a desperate effort to save the victims of this tragedy.”

One hero whose story hasn’t been widely reported: a man named Nick Meli, who was carrying a concealed Glock that day at the mall. He actually had the shooter in his sights, but he did not pull the trigger because there were other people in the line of fire. You can see an interview with him in the video below.

Now, you might be wondering why I’m calling him a hero even though he didn’t shoot the criminal. It’s very simple — I’m calling him a hero because he is a hero. In the middle of a horrible situation, he had a choice to make, and he made it. He made that  choice based on what he knew about his own skills within the dynamics of the situation.

After the criminal saw an armed citizen pointing a gun at him, the criminal ran away from the crowded areas of the mall, into a back hallway, and killed himself. Why did he do that? We’ll never know for sure… but historically, in mass public murders like this, many of the criminals kill themselves as soon as good people with guns arrive on scene. Nick Meli’s action may very well have saved lives.

 

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Tears and prayers — and a favor

As I write this, the news reports coming out of the elementary school in Connecticut are not good. My heart breaks for the families affected by the tragedy, and I will be keeping them in my prayers this week. As I posted on my Facebook feed, this isn’t the time for politics. Today is a day for prayer and for empathy, and I ask everyone who posts here to respect that. There will be other times and other days for that.

Related: although I’m a strong believer in learning from other people’s experiences, I’m definitely not one of those trainers or pundits who will immediately scurry into the limelight with flashy videos and fresh articles after an atrocity like this. Frankly, we don’t have enough reliable information to work with. And even if we did, the information will be there tomorrow, or the next day, or next week. Today isn’t the day for that.

In days to come, there will be lessons we can learn from this horror, just as there are lessons we can learn from other types of violent crime. When the time comes to talk about those lessons, I will do everything in my power to discuss the events with honesty, clarity, and compassion.

But there is one thing I will not do.

I will not name the murderer. I will not link to his scribblings or post his picture. I will not contribute to the sick cult of celebrity that drives copycats after events like this.

Why not? Well, because this:

(h/t to Tamara.)

And because I agree with Matt G when he writes:

Every time someone clicks to go to these sites, then the vultures who linked to the stories, with Tweets and stories and teasers of his name and what he did– they feel validated. The end justifies the means. Their job is to get people to come to their site. They did it. Good job!

Ever think of the cost, though? 

It would be an unusual reader here who didn’t know the names of the murderers at Columbine.   In the months that followed that massacre, the names and pictures of K. and H. were splashed across the media like so much blood. That’s notoriety. To a demented mind considering going out in a blaze of… something… that’s star power, right there. Who remembers the names of the victims, though?

Enough.

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The Parade of the Dancing Bears

Really enjoying all the feedback on my How to Become a Firearms Instructor article. There’s so much more to say and to think about with this topic. What makes a good instructor? What credentials should a firearms trainer have? What kind of background? What isn’t necessary?

Today, I offer another perspective. This one’s about Driving Dogs and Dancing Bears. Go read The Parade of the Dancing Bears.

Bonus: includes quotes from AGirl and a hilarious video from Tamara. How cool is that?

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Learning to teach

Several times over the past few years, I’ve had people ask me about the process of becoming a firearms instructor. How do you do it? What does it take? How much training is enough, and what kind of a background do you need to have?

Here’s my answer: How to Become a Firearms Instructor.

It’s a somewhat higher standard than many people seem to hold, so I’m really looking forward to hearing everyone’s feedback on this one.  Although I expect I’ll catch plenty of flak in this age of the instant expert, I also think it’s a conversation our  community really needs to have.

Please share this link with others, and post your thoughts below.

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